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The Sex Tree Faq.

Q1 Why are you doing this site? (The origional Answer april 2007, q13 october 2007 - the evolution of an idea)
Multiple reasons. We want to make people better lovers. We want to help to help people overcome fear and make them more confident. We want them to be happy in who they are. We want to help people bring more love into the world. We want to help you get over jealousy. Above all we want you to be yourself. I believe that we are all capable of achieving anything we want in life. Now do you have the courage to set your mind free? We are also promoting the safe sex message and the more people who link to one other means the message of freedom and love is one step closer to happening. I’m not trying to change you, I mealy want you to be happy in who you are. We want to challenge religion and control. We want to free the world from slavery. We want to give people back the control over their lives. We want to give you the choice you’ve never had before. There's a film called the matrix watch it. Neo is the Antichrist. Budhists teach reality is illusion. We believe what we want to believe. Everything you see, touch and do is your minds interpretation. Reality is not what we see, touch, taste or feel. That is an interpretation. Once your minds are opened to the truth there’s no going back. Choose wisely.

Q2 Do you really have to have had sex with a member to join?
Not anymore. We now accept friends link. We offer you the choice to sign up as either. Just put in the username of someone you know and they will validate you. Sex Links are better. We think those without them are losers. They have not let go enough with jealousy holding them back. I am the real life Neo once you choose to take the step to open your mind there is no going back. You need to let go to unplug yourselves and develop. Your mind is what sets you free or holds you prisoner. Open Your Minds. It's the great sex tree experiment seeing how many people we can link to. We are considering setting this up as a research product to find out the sexual interaction between the different social groups. If you've heard the theory of six degrees of separation we are talking it one step further. How many degrees sexually separate people in the same social group or between them? Ask around your bound to find a member sooner or later. This thing is going to grow worldwide. Members will be able to see how people interact sexually across the globe. The matrix is based on fiction which is based on fact. There’s more to this than meets the eye. The benefits of this is it will show the world we are closer then we think. If we can promote the message of love over violence we can make the world a happier place. We also want to promote the benefits of safe sex as by looking at the tree you will begin to see how many people you are connected with.

Q3 How old do you have to be to join?
You obviously have to be above the age of consent in the country you live in. Minimum age is 18. Anyone having had sex with someone below that age would have broke the law. Any member who is stupid enough to do this would be expelled and reported. We don't like stupid people. We are after sexually mature and confident people. If I am energy. What is an aura? Reality or illusion. After all you have to be pretty confident to allow yourself to be rated by an ex. Make love not war is the motto of the site. Look in the mirror what do you see?

Q4 What site features do you offer?
Our range of features for members is expanding all the time. Do you dream? Ever had a dream which turns to reality the next day. For starters we have forums, keep a journal, browse members profiles, send mail to other members and even rate them. has a feeling that someone was going to call and you were right? We have member articles and the position of the day. premium functionality on offer is you get to view who keeps visiting you, who's rated you and what members have said about each other. You will be able to find out from the comments if you have something in comment. Look again at the women in the red dress, is she the same women you started with? This all makes it easier to find new friends and loves. You know which of your ex's would get on with each other? then introduce them using play cupid. By staying in touch and on good terms with our ex's we will widen our social circle and perhaps be introduced to the women of your dreams. play nice though and sign others up.

Q5 So this is a dating site?
Yes and No. Yes in I noticed a lot of women were complaining about all the idiots on dating sites. we decided to start a new site were people would be vetted before they joined. What was it like the first time you woke up? You have a choice. We find that if someone is willing to own up to having been with you in public you stand a semi decent chance of being human or a nice person. This way you get the lowdown on the members from the people who were closest to them. Stare at the spot in the mirror. No in that a lot of attached people are on the site and are using it as a meeting place for new friends of the same sex. We are energy. Profiles clearly highlight what people are looking for if anything.

Q6 I notice you get people to rate each other. Is this shown to other members?
Those willing to pay the yearly subscription will be able to view what members have said about each other. The tarot is a spiritual book. Non members just see the average sex rating.. We therefore suggest you be nice in your comments to other people as if you don't it will reflect badly on you. Slagging people off is not sexy and Jealousy is over rated. It is better to be secure in yourself and to know that people do in fact love you for who you are. It’s also worth remember the opposite sex do talk about you and compare notes!

Q6 Is this condoning a-moral behaviour?
Absolutely not we are for safe sex. In fact by seeing how big the tree grows. Kether is inception. Should be enough to scare anyone into taking precautions and watching their behaviour. End of the day this is a bit of fun. If you don't have a sense of humour we suggest you go and find one. If you object to the idea then we suggest you go and meditate till you find enlightenment. I have a low opinion of the hypocrisy of the so called slave religions. Who seem more intent on killing each other. Make love not war! Making love is the most natural order in the world. If more people did it and were secure about their sexuality the world would be a better place. Yet instead of this people continue to use fear and persecution in an attempt to in slave and control this masses. Imagine the light coming into your body. I would hope that this sort of mentality would be left back in the stone ages where it belongs. Yesod into malakuth. Manifest Your desires to reality. Open your mind. There’s more to this then meets the eye. Visualise the darkness washing away. I would recommend the book modern sex magic by kraig or anything on tantra. If you feel this way I suggest you go away till you are a bit more mature. I am happy to go into a philosophical debate with anyone. Interestingly the uses of bdsm as a spiritual path has it's uses for it helps teach you to submit to the ego which is a necessary step to get in touch and speaking with your higher self or the uber-consciousness it's been described. The fact anyone still falls for the idea that you have to belong to one of those religions to be "moral" really annoys, right rant over! I am also of the belief we should get religion out of our schools and teach our kids how to be self sufficient, we should be empowering them not conditioning them. Focus on love, respect, what we can do. Not the faulty belief set that someone shouldn't do something because they themselves are too scared to face the insecurity in themselves Then again perhaps it is better to teach all religions equally the question is can we teach them equally. Right I think you all get the idea - I hate to preach to the converted.

Q8 What about Jealousy?
Some people are insecure in themselves. they are therefore reluctant to join. Illusion is reality. They fear the ex's of the past. this is understandable to some degree. However jealousy serves no part in a secure and healthy relationship. Once a relationship ends it's usually over. If your insecure in yourself we suggest you do something about it and sign up on the site. You will be surprised at the good things your ex's will say about you. By overcoming your fears you can enjoy a more productive relationship. It's not about how many or how few. inexperience can be turned into experience very easy. quality matters. the important thing is learning to be open and honest with each other. Accept people for who they are and they will accept you for you are. If your finding yourself repeating the same broken patterns. see what your doing wrong. your ex's will tell you. There’s more to this then meets the eye. Then do something about it and find the love you deserve.

Q9 What type of things are people writing about each other?
well for strengths we have caring, intelligent, good in bed, great personality, nice eyes, they make me laugh, good size. Wicca is good. While in weaknesses we have things like need to be more dominant ,they smoke, needs to be more outgoing, lean on me too much. You could perhaps list annoying habits. So far everyone has been nice and constructive. Frequency is everyting. feel the vibration between your hands. Move them back and forth. We would rather people boost the confidence of each other and rate each other nice. Two of disks. Three of Clubs. Crowley was right. Then again perhaps that won't last as the site grows? You all you saw potential in them at some point. Remember what it was that first drew them to you and highlight it. We reserve the right to remove links and have you kicked off the site if we think your being an arse.

Q10 I'm scared of my personal life being plastered across the web?
Everyone is using pseudonims. No personal details are stored unless you put them up. Come To Me. I love You Well. Up Above So below. It’s upto me to change my view. Existing members can not see your email address which is just used to notify you when you have mail or link requests. The only people who are going to know who you are the people you link to and frankly you wouldn't be inviting them on the site if you thought they were dodgy! In return of getting your confidence boosted by your ex's you will be helping to contribute to research on the sexual state of the nation and helping to promote the safe sex message. Love me once, love me twice. Magic works. I'm hoping most of us are adult enough to handle that.

Q11 I don't like my partner doing this?
Why not? You need to identify whats really bothering you. Teach me magic, teach me jealousy. For good or for ill I set you free. Show me the way to go home. Remember they are ex's for a very good reason. If you are scared of talking about each others past. if you can not have a laugh about your mistakes and what you have learnt then i'm afraid your insecure and jealousy. There’s more to this then meets the eye. There’s nothing to fear, but fear itself. No go in peace. Remember your together for a reason. the future is what matters. You have to be able to relax with your partner and trust they love you for who you are. If you can not relax then i know from bitter experience the relationship is doomed from the outset. work out what's bothering you. remember there are lots of good people out there who will love you for who you are. If you still can't cope with the idea then sorry your a looser. Learning to love is perhaps the hardest thing we do in this world. Letting go of the past is often difficult at best. Some people choose to ignore it and bottle it up and this often has devastating results on future relationships. Two of disks is what I want. Two OF cups is what i seek. Three of swords is lost no more. Learn to live with your mistakes and realise you are who you are. Six of cups is more my style. Love me once, love me twice. It’s up to you to change your style. Im not a looser. It’s not my fault. I have grown beyond my means. Its upto you. To bring me the nine of disks. Once is sold, once is made. I love the world and want to go home To bring me freedom and bring me wealth.

Q12 So how do I sign people up
Once your joined. Speak to your ex's. A radical concept I know. Having polite conversation with an ex - has the world gone mad? Ask them to join using an invite or just let them know about it by word of mouth. Most of us are from the same social group so it's a bit hard to avoid them. Especially if you have the same friends. Some will get it others won't. After all your only signing them up if you think they would go good with some else. So it's a complement in a way a way. savvy? word of warning don't stand too close if they are likely to slap you! Though fear not you can also get your friends on here as well. So invite them as a friend link. The more you help the more i grow. So there’s more to this then meets the eye it not my style to fade away. I'm a winner, so are they. Come to me it's the only way.

Q13 Why are you doing this site (The Evolved Answer)
It origionaly started as a joke to unite people, but it soon became apparent that no longer worked. unfortunatly people were too insecure about being themselves. Not only in love, but in other areas of their life. On careful examiniation my own research got involed. This tied the spritual research into psychic development before spirialing into a more detailed analysis of all philophical ideas. I would have been a monk almost (either that or locked in an insane asylum , while loosing my grip on sanity through my experiments and sensitivity to spirit), if it were not for the law and the continued threat of democracy. So here we stand, trying to unite the spirital ideas and break down the walls which divide society, uniting people in pluralistic thought and maintaing pluarlistic integrity. Making them question those who would seek to take it away. The journals are there to allow people to evolve their ideas, relationships fail because we don't speak enough, share enough, trust enough. Society is based on solid foundations, if those foundations are brittle then the whole system will collapse inward. United we stand, divided we fall. I think anthing i've learnt can be learnt. yet im not sure if you want to. Its a double edged sword and has messed with my mind, sod it fear nothing. its fears which have kept us divided and investigating the truth. the more people who do it, the easier it will grow as people will be used to it. already lots around and the numbers grow. so back to the drawing board it seems. i know absolutly very little about anything if truth be told. so i'm winging the site and ideas. an ambulance goes past. how nice. some company would be nice. It appears im running my personal war on reform, alone, no money and perhaps no clear objective. how long before it hits the point till someone notices i wounder. the stength of an idea which is being pushed through by a mix of sheer will power, luck, apathy and above all persistance. If only someone actually gave a damn!

Q14 Why the apple
this was an enlightened take on the christian myth. trance or my own warped imagination. Perhaps compleatly lost from the site now. It is part of the antichrist argument. Which is the apple was good, to tempt you away to be free. Slavery and control undermines your right to life. Yet knowing bares it's price in responsibility that one often wishes to be ignorant of the facts. The lack of certinity is bound to course issues. Assume nothing and leave nothing to chance. We can and we will do better, if we but believe in ourselves. Check out crowley and yes lilith did like me apparently. i'm sure it was just someone playing on me to get a certain book and overcome my fear. knowledge is nothing to be scared of. the more you learn the more you can relate to people, empathise and more importantly the less likely you are to fall for those fools who try and control. herasy is welcomed and we should focus on uniting the concepts.

Q15 The antichrist
Alas too many people are conditioned to fear the old texts, their lack of understanding and fears have brought me into disripute. i care not. belief is devisive, while questioning belief breaks down wall and unites. therefore if christ represents belief. the anti-christ represents the obvious contradiction. freewill and questioning. the upholder of individual freedom. One without the other leaves you divided, incomplete and ignorant of the facts. Logic and instinct combined, yin and yand and let the balance be restored before all is lost. The war on terror begins today, her and now, and those goverments who will surpress the people through fear, guilt and manipulation will bare the brunt. For Reason will unite us and knoweldge will set us free. Let us hope intelect and debate will win out over the fools who have forgotton the meaning of the consitution.

Q15 Shocked and disowned
I will hold the mirror of your fears to your face. It is you who is at fault for your perceptions are your curse. Your closedminded attitudes, bigatory and judgemental attiudes, your morality is what caused the problems to being with. Your sins not mine. Love perhaps wil win through, but love is not love if it is conditional. Morality is personal choice. No take your feeble learnings, your feeble religions and go in peace before I tell you your lies. Knowledge can destroy a man/women as easy as it can save. Barriers can be broked down, but you have to be willing to walk the path of the moon to the sun. Alone in the dark before the flowers awake. Sex and language is jsut that a natural method of communication. Get over it. If you like something not, then go somewhere else. read or view soething else. You have well to bear no notice of the privivate going on between consenting adults. Even if it's your own son or daughter. You are blocking their progress if you deem it would reflect ill on you. It is not your bleeding concern if they choose thier own path. KNowledge will set you free, but the price is high. Shamed I was of closemindedness, tears to my eyes. For how do you open the eyes of those who do not want to look. A horse can never be forced to drink it seems.

Q16 My failings and the future direction
It seems an idea is not enough, you have to learn to live with it first. More importantly you need to learn to explain the concepts in bite sized chunks. Logic is not for the fainthearted. THe writings evole, the site is updated, not fast enough. The spiritual issues opened me up to much, an unexpected concequence. Occult is touch and go, yet not without its wounders. I regret nothing (except my losses, and the blight of hindsight if only i knew then, what i knew now) My work will hopefully turn into united philopshy ocvering everything from law, sex, spirituality and government. Of course i am prone to update notes without proof reading, incoplete and forever in note for. it seems no sooner have you written an idea it is no longer in vogue. Something better always comes along and replaces it. Thats the buety of listening to the whispers in the wind, still the mind and the answers coe. plays bloody havoc trying to get a date thouh! No matter what I grow stronger by the day, we all do. The more we learn, the more we grow and develop. The more we overcome our flaws and the more we progress to a better tommorow. The philophy of tommorow starts today. Pay no heed to the memories of old, there is no substitute for living it, learning it and above all loving it.

Q17 the matyr plan
While I develop and fail to get anywhere on my own. It seems the human race has given up hope. So i do wounder if I would do better making a sacrifice in order to prove the point and leave something. Of course I then come to the conclusion I can't do that till i've all my writtings in place, so it seems either way i'm screwed to write the book down. It would be a waste without the perfect speech, the most flawed individaul still clings to life. My ego to live on and make a difference. Ignorant of the fact that I am perhaps the most selifsh of foes. For i care not openly for anyone. Humans are incompkelte the alpha male dominates and it is forever frustrating to live in a wolrd where you can not accoplish anything without resorting to those rules. Pointless as ever, perhaps I should have strung myself up on the cross alongside christ, to prove a bloody point and balance an argument which is long overdue. The bickering should end now. I hope I am wrong and one can live in a world where my writtins are tained by the scorn of what I see. If only I were in love then perhaps it would set me free. Yet never surrender, never give in and I will fight the war alone, even if I have to break every head of state i ever did meet.

Q18 war in europe and the journal
Started by a speeding camera, the dominose do fall. Those notice of prosecutions is all it takes to alienate people from government. If you want to see how, then read my journal. its probably buried there somewhere. most of y updated ideas override anything ive written elsewhere. Depending on the date of course. Have a sense of humour. I still think there are two outcomes world peace for an idea or complete anihaliation. Depending on the stupidity of the world. All it takes is a few good speeches. Perhaps a lottery, the roulette wheel. How many want peace and how many want war. I hope peace is in the offing, but its hard to tell at times. The ents can and will rise if governments continue to fail, not a threat more an obseration that history repeats and someone needs to start thinking about the future growth and prosperity of the world. The idea is fiction, though I hope democracy can be founded which sets an example to what america has long since started to erode. military force is not the way to judge our future. people need to be told the facts and we should start setting the example. So get with the program and stop bickering for short term petty concerns. Democratic elections and a constitional bedrock which really does stand dor freedom. We can and we can do better the founding fathers, if we actually start to follow human rights law, instead of twiting it for undo political concerns.

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